| If you are in a relationship right now, or are | | | | able to love my partner for who they are. If I |
| thinking of going into one, there are 3 very | | | | am unhappy or angry with something they have |
| important tips you should know and questions you | | | | said or done, will I be able to recognize my |
| should ask yourself before you ever get yourself | | | | unhappiness or anger as against their speech, |
| into a relationship. This could save you from a lot | | | | actions and behavior, and not against their |
| of heartache and pain when you are involved in a | | | | persons?" |
| love relationship. | | | | (3) Will I be able to love myself as much as I love |
| (1) Your lover does not owe you your happiness, | | | | my partner? |
| peace or joy. | | | | If you cannot love yourself, how are you going to |
| Happiness is a state of mind we choose to have. | | | | give love to another? This is a mistake most |
| All of your happiness, and all of your suffering, are | | | | people make when they go into a relationship. |
| created by you and they do not come from | | | | They become over-obsessive with what they can |
| outside of you, or from others. Before you go | | | | give to their partners and what they can do for |
| into any type of relationship, ask yourself these | | | | their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, |
| questions: "Do I really, really, really know how to | | | | you have to learn to take care of your own |
| walk away from disappointment and fear? Will I | | | | needs as well. A true partner or lover is one who |
| be able to find the person that I am now even | | | | will make sure that you do not become too |
| after I go into this relationship and begin a new | | | | dependent on them. You are responsible for your |
| way of life?" In short, you should not be | | | | own feelings and your own emotional needs too. |
| dependent on your partner on your emotional | | | | You are a beautiful being. So, take care of |
| needs. You yourself are responsible for your own | | | | yourself, love yourself, treat yourself to all the |
| feelings and creating positive experiences for both | | | | good things in life too, and do the same to your |
| your partner and you whenever you are | | | | partner. Very soon you will find true love always |
| together. | | | | coming your way without any effort on your |
| (2) Love your partner for who they are. | | | | part! |
| No one in this world is perfect. One day you will | | | | As always, if you are encountering problems in |
| find your partner doing certain things or saying | | | | your relationship, try to dissolve all of your |
| certain things that will hurt you, disappoint you or | | | | problems in love. And you'll be sure you are on |
| anger you. Before you go into any type of | | | | your way to a peaceful and fulfilling relationship! |
| relationship, you have to ask yourself: "Will I be | | | | |