Coping with the Cost of Christmas

Christmas is fast approaching and as parents youfeel you are depriving them, as well as keeping
will be starting the annual round of shoppingthe fruit bowl stocked, there are plenty
searching for the latest gadgets and electronicalternatives that you can buy. Try cereal bars
toys, Christmas gifts seem to get moreinstead of chocolate, or dried fruit packs or
expensive each year. Understandably, parentsyoghurt covered raisins instead of sweets.
want to give their children the best they canFor other relatives and friends you can cut costs
afford. But, there has to be a limit. Set yourself aand also get the children involved in making gifts
budget and stick to it. I know that is easier saidsuch as mince pies, sweets, biscuits etc and
than done - when you are faced with the all toopacking them in pretty boxes or bags tied with
familiar longing pleas from young children and theribbons. After all, it's the thought that counts - not
emotional drive of a unique baby gift.the cost!
Children don't need lots of money spent on them.Christmas Shopping
You don't need to go deep in debt - there areChristmas gift shopping can be a nightmare unless
other ways to cope and unique Christmas giftsyou are well organized. Take some time out to
need not cost a great deal whilst at the sameplan things before you leave home. If you plan
time they will be treasured and last a lot longeryour trip wisely, it is possible to do most of your
than many gifts bought at this time of the year. .shopping all in a day. Remember personalised gifts
If children are old enough to write a list for Santaare not just for the children, adults appreciate
- ask them to put items in order of preferencethem as well.
and, depending on price and your budget, pick· Make a list of all the people you need to
from the list to suit your pocket. If your child isbuy presents for.
under 4 they aren't yet aware of the monetary· Decide how much you want to spend on
value of things and you can get away witheach person
wrapping up some old toys which have been· Think of at least two gift ideas for each
pushed to the back of a cupboard and forgottenperson.
about. A lot of young children have more fun with· Get your Mum or Partner to baby-sit - this
the wrapping paper!is one trip you need to do without kids in tow.
Another source of toys and gifts can be found in(Although another adult would be handy to help
Charity Shops or car boot sales. I know from mycarry some bags)
own experience that you can pick up some· Decide where you are going to shop and
decent stuff. Lots of children grow out of theirplan your route between department stores and
toys or have too many, their parents give themshops where you will be able to buy the bulk of
away to Charity Shops. They feel good becauseyour presents - leaving the heaviest gifts till last!
they are helping out a charity and you feel good· Don't waste your time comparing -
as you too are helping out the charity by buyingbrowsing isn't practical at this time of year. Go for
from them and in turn your child is happy as theythe first one that fits the bill.
get new toys. Everyone's a winner! Charity shops· If you have access to the Internet you can
are also an excellent source of books for childrensave a lot of hassle and time by doing some of
at bargain prices.your shopping online.
Car Boot Sales can still be found - lots of towns· Keep a note of everything you spend as it
have indoor sales at this time of year. Peopleis so easy to run your Credit Card bill up. It is not
make use of them to have a clear out beforelike spending cash - you can get carried away far
Christmas and you can usually find some goodtoo easily. Think before you spend.
bargains if you go early. Please be sensible andGet Your Wrapping Organised
remember to check for small or loose parts and· Sort out all your presents into piles for each
check the toy is suitable for the age of your child.person and then use one kind of paper for each
With older children, tell them they have a limitedperson, that way family members can easily spot
budget for their main present - say £50 - sotheir gifts under the tree.
they know to choose an item under that price. If· Write out all your gift tags before you
they really, really want something morestart.
expensive, encourage them to contribute towards· Any tubes or bottles can be wrapped
it from their savings. Alternatively, you could askcracker style - it looks great and saves on fiddly
other family members to put together to buy afolding.
bigger present.· If you have any leftover fabric you can
In an ideal world you should start gatheringuse it to wrap presents instead of paper and tie
stocking fillers early - like in the January sales! Alltogether with ribbon or curtain ties.
through the year stock up on goodies likeShopping Online
chocolate, biscuits and booze. Keep an eye outThe Internet can provide a solution to the
for buy one get one free offers and use oneperennial problem of Christmas shopping especially
now and put the other away (remember towhen you want that something special - you can
check the sell-by dates). Shops have sales all yearfind personalised gift ideas by simply typing in
round so keep an eye out for a bargain.'personalised gift' (without the quote marks) into
But now that Christmas is approaching, tryyour search engine.
shopping at the bargain supermarkets with aNo queuing, no crowds, no wasted time looking
more limited range - if they don't stock it youfor parking spaces. In fact, no hassle at all. A lot
won't be tempted.of shopping can be done over a cup of coffee in
Get organized, that way you can avoidcomfort without leaving the warmth of your living
last-minute panic buying. If you plan ahead you'llroom. Much better!
also be able to give yourself more time to makeSome Christmas gifts that can be personalised
things at home, such as mince pies, Christmasinclude:
cake, biscuits, sweets. It is a great way to includePendulum Clocks; Height Charts; Coat pegs;
the children - they will love getting involved withJewellery Boxes; Rudolph toy; Santa Plate &
helping by doing little tasks such as cutting outLetter; Christmas Breakfast Set and many more.
different shaped lids for the mince pies usingChristmas is a time of hassle frustration and
pastry cutters. You can also get the childrenoverspending but with a little bit of planning
involved in making decorations and cards.Christmas day should be and can be a day of
Just because it's Christmas you don't have to gogreat joy and happiness.
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