| If you feel like you don't know how to
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| | to someone. If you guessed that young
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| talk to people of the opposite sex, you
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| | boys keep conflicts going by talking, you
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| might be onto something!Men and women
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| | are right!4. Girls talk using words and
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| definitely have different ways of
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| | will use more words to explain something.
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| communicating. Learning how the other
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| | A young boy is more likely to use actions
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| half uses language will help to improve
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| | to emphasize what he is trying to say.As
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| your communication with the opposite
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| | we grow and learn how to talk to people,
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| sex.And if you're still not convinced,
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| | being aware of these differences can help
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| there is even a term that is specific to
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| | (especially when the people you are
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| the different languages of the sexes. The
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| | talking to are of the opposite sex.)Many
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| term is genderlect. Suzette Haden Elgin
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| | of those early traits continue, as we
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| coined the term in her book, Genderspeak.
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| | grow older. Men will continue to use
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| Her book talked about different methods
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| | communication as a means of staying
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| men and women could use to better
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| | independent, while women will continue to
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| communicate.Deborah Tannen went into even
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| | use language as a tool for
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| more detail about gender communication in
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| | intimacy.Grown-up men often will talk to
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| her book, entitled You Just Don't
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| | establish status (remember the boasting
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| Understand: Men and Women in Conversation
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| | as little boys?) Women will connect
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| (1990, Ballantine.) Tannen says that even
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| | themselves to others by using language to
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| when a man and woman are raised in the
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| | build up rapport.Tannen calls these
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| same neighbourhood or even in the same
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| | differences 'report-talk' (men) and
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| home they will grow up in different
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| | 'rapport-talk', for the women.
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| language worlds.The question of how to
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| | Understanding this one specific
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| talk to people of the opposite sex really
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| | difference can really show how women
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| needs to first be answered by
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| | quite often take what men say,
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| understanding the ways men and women
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| | personally, when they really were only
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| differ in how they express
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| | 'reporting' on a situation.Learning how
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| themselves.Here are some of the biggest
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| | to talk to people is made a lot simpler
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| differences, starting at a very young
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| | when you understand genderlect - the
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| age:1. Girls talk or use language as a
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| | language of the sexes.Peter Murphy is a
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| way to be liked. Little boys often talk
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| | peak performance expert. He recently
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| to be boastful.2. A little girl will
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| | produced a very popular free report: 10
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| request something. A boy? He makes
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| | Simple Steps to Developing Communication
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| demands.3. Girls tend to use language as
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| | Confidence.
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| a way to create harmony - to get closer
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